Career Advice: Help! I've Landed a New, but Miserable Job!

Dear Debbie:
I got a new job about 3 months ago and am realizing it’s not at all what I expected. I don’t want to look like a “job hopper” on my resume although this is getting unbearable. Help! How long do I have to stay in this situation where I’m miserable? Candace J.

Dear Candace:
First question for you: What drew you to that job in the first place? There was something there that attracted you. I suggest remembering what that was, defining why it hasn’t panned out, and determining if there’s any chance of making this work for you for at least another 3 months. If you are building a career, it’s important to show progressive moves and some tenure on your resume. Ask yourself what is working there and how can you do more of those tasks, work with those people, or take on those projects. Be objective in your analysis before you move too hastily and possibly make the same mistake with the next job. Talk to your close friends and confidants and ask for their objective input. Doing work you love and are passionate about it is very important; however, before jumping too soon from a job you’re not getting that from, do a thorough evaluation of the situation. After this type of analysis, you’ll know exactly what to do – stay a while longer and give it your best, or move on to something that serves you better. Whatever the case, you’ll feel better knowing you made a smart career move.

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